About Me

I'm adventurous when I want to be, but I'm just as happy watching a movie at home. I'm married to my best friend who makes me laugh on a regular basis & a son that makes me happier then he will ever know. I strongly feel that the most important thing in life is your relationship with Christ and your relationship with others.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

I DO!!

I had the privilege of helping take some pictures for a friend's wedding. The Garmon's have been family friends since I was born...literally. I've known Whitney since they moved back to Oak Ridge when Marissa and I were in middle school (I think). Anyway, they had a beautiful wedding & reception. I took over 1,000 pictures, but I put a "favorites" album together with around 200 starting with the bridal tea and ending with the reception. You don't have to look at them all, but they are here if you want to! Congratulations Whitney & Nathan!!!!

Monday, September 28, 2009

The (not so) Glamorous Life of Business Travel...

I thought I'd attempt to "photo journal" after I've seen some of my good friends give it a try. It's when you blog with minimal words & mainly use pictures. After typing "scariest black man alive" and "perverted Mexican that could also be a pimp" into google image, I decided words were best for this occasion...and it would take lots of them!

Where to begin....

It all started on a slightly rainy Monday morning (last Monday to be exact) when I was scheduled to fly out of the Chattanooga airport at 12pm, get on a 2pm flight in Atlanta to arrive in Oklahoma City by 3pm for work. I normally travel alone, but since I was training our new hire I actually had someone to meet me at the airport. Nadia was arriving about an hour earlier than me, but she didn't mind waiting so we could get the rental car together and be on our merry way.

I was first told that our plan was delayed in CHA due to maintenance. Every hour we got another "update" only to say that it was still delayed. I had missed my connection at this point & was trying to find another flight from ATL to OKC. Then all planes coming into ATL were grounded due to the flooding in the area. Since they couldn't get their planes out-of course they couldn't take anymore in. The airline then agreed to put me in a cab & drive me to ATL. I figured if I could get to ATL all would be good...big mistake.

My 7pm flight kept getting pushed back so I waited in the airport until 10pm when our plane finally arrived. People came off and all looked well....until they announced that it was canceled. Seriously!? I could have gone home at noon if I would have known this! Ok...great....So, I reschedule for the first available flight the next day & call Marbi & Andrew since they are only about 25mi from the airport. We decided it would be best for me to take a cab to a Waffle House that is near their house & they would get me from there so the cab driver wouldn't get lost in their neighborhood.

I've waited in line all day as you can imagine. There are hundreds of people that had their flight canceled...in fact I counted 39 flashing canceled on the screen around 3pm while I was waiting in a line. I get to the cab line and every one of those people are in it. wonderful....my life consists of "hurry up & wait" today. When it's my turn for a cab this huge 8 passenger van with only one sliding door on the side pulls up. Tinted windows & I didn't see "cab" anywhere on it. In it is a cab driver from West Africa that doesn't speak English & doesn't know where I'm telling him to go. I see he has a GPS, but since he doesn't know how to use it...I do. We finally get to our exit and there is dead.stop.traffic. I mean...people can't move one inch! We didn't move for about an hour. I had been patient all day...good attitude, nice to the Delta workers, ok that I wasn't allowed to get my bag...until now. I was stuck in the cab with no air conditioning, with a guy that didn't wear deodorant and I'm exhausted. Come to find out....I-20 was under water. They were making everyone exit (at the exit we happened to need) & then get back on a mile or so down the road.

We finally get moving & we're not allowed to turn right, which is the only way we know how to go....so my cabbie does a U-turn & gets us going in the right direction. I was pleased! :) As we're driving we see why we shouldn't have been allowed to turn right...cops are passing us with their lights on only to block off the upcoming intersection. If we passed one before he got there it was only a matter of time before another one got in front of us. It's now around 1am & the cops are telling us "you're holding up traffic" and refuse to help us find an alternative route. I'm only 5 miles from M&A's house...I could walk there if they would let me!

I get dropped off at a 24 hour Kroger since my cab ride is racking up in price. When we pull up there are 5 guys outside that I'm pretty convinced were in a gang standing in the doorway. Great. The cab driver gives me his card in case I need to call him back after he saw where he was leaving me. I really think he felt bad, but neither one of us knew what to do.

There is only one way in and one way out at this store, which is right by the cashier so they can cut back on theft. I decided to get a toothbrush, contact solution & wait for M&A to get me. They know exactly where I'm at...again just 5mi away. I went to the magazine aisle to look busy & distract my mind. That is when this Mexican man decided I looked like something he might enjoy...."oh...you look nice...oh you look so nice...you so pretty..." I ignored him, he persisted, I told him to "leave me alone" & act like it didn't bother me as I read my magazine, but when he returned with his friend I got nervous. That was about the time that I get a call from Marbi saying "there is no way Andrew can get you, he's tried 12 different ways & they are all closed to flooding." My heart dropped....I was so close, but so far. I couldn't speak b/c if I did I was going to cry so I took my phone to the cashier and asked him to call me a cab. I couldn't imagine there being a hotel that wasn't scarier than this Kroger around me so I contemplated asking my new gay/cashier friend if I could go home with him. The only thing that stopped me was I wasn't sure he lived alone...and no telling who he lived with.

Marbi called back and said "Andrew will walk on water if he has to....he will get you...it may just take awhile." During all of this my Mexican friend comes over to see if I'm ok...I start crying...he proceeds to tell me that I can go home with him if I'm in trouble and he is even kind enough to pay me....wow...what a sweetie. I'll speed up the story since this is taking forever, but I was continued to be hit on throughout the next two hours by some of the scariest people you've ever seen. Two construction workers thought I may want to leave & go party with them...hum...not so much. Lucky for me two of the workers there would run anyone off if they noticed things getting out of hand. I was literally shaking as I waited for Andrew trying not to cry & pretend to read my book so I could ignore everyone.

3:30am Andrew gets me and all is well with the world again! I missed my flight the next morning due to roads being closed and all of ATL traffic going on back roads with one way streets. I ended up getting out at 7:30pm Tues. night. Nadia picked me up from the airport & we find out the full hotel canceled my reservation. I called to tell them my situation & change one of the rooms I booked to Nadia's name, but somehow it still got canceled so I ended up staying with her until they could get me another room the next day.

Luckily the rest of the work week went smooth & so did my flights getting home. Next time you think traveling for work is fun remember this story & you might sing a different tune. ;)

Friday, September 18, 2009

Got My Hair Did...

I got a hair cut yesterday! Mom & Erica you would be proud. :) Hopefully a year won't pass before I go again. I'm so happy it's easy...all I have to do is blow dry & I can do that. Don't you feel like a new person when you get your hair washed, dried & cut by someone else!? I love that feeling! I almost get that same feeling when I get my eyebrows waxed.

disclaimer: my hair may never look this good again since he blowed it dry with a round brush, which I prob. have somewhere, but I have no clue where it would be packed....and I'm far from a professional.
before...
after!after again.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

TV Tangle


I would like to be the kind of person that doesn't own a TV. I love those people, they read instead of watching & find other ways to pass their time. They are about 1,000 times cooler than I am. If you are one of those people please pat yourself on the back.

The problem is that I love TV. I love it. The worst part is it's the mind-numbing, unrealistic pointless shows that I like the most. Now I enjoy some TV with plot & suspense, but honestly if I listed all the shows that have been on my DVR at one point or another you would probably judge me. You would look at my shows & think I was a mindless idiot, but that is kind of the point. My mind is running all the time & it feels good to just watch something that doesn't require thought.

Most of the time I casually watch shows at my own leisure, but on occasion the TV monster gets me. He will grab me at the most inopportune times preventing me from accomplishing the days tasks. Has he ever gotten you? He really likes the Lifetime channel on rainy Sunday afternoons when you should be reading or napping. You've been warned...

Tonight I'm planning to join some friends to watch 90210 & Melrose Place. See...judging...I knew it! They are ridiculous, dramatic & absolutely absurd, but I love it because it's easy to follow & it's just plain entertaining. These two aren't particularly shows that I've seen more than once & truly love, but I'm sure with a few episodes I'll be anticipating every Tuesday night...it doesn't take much!

Maybe one day I'll throw my TV out.... ;)

Cheap Thrill!!!

I'm not going to pretend like I'm some salon goddess...truth be told I'm the opposite of that. In fact, I've actually gone a whole year without getting my hair cut, trimmed, styled, anything. Sad isn't it?

So....what I'm trying to say is that this cheap thrill I just found may not be a secret to any of you reading this. You may roll your eyes & laugh out loud at me right now, but I'm willing to risk it all just in case there is one person that did not know this. Man...I've really built it up now. ;)

I recently discovered that you do not have to get a manicure to get your nails painted. In fact, it's a measly $5 (here in Cleveland anyway) to have your nails professionally painted. She shapes them up, buffs them a bit & puts a clear coat, 2 color coats & another clear coat! I'm amazed!!!

Getting my nails painted Saturday has given me so much joy! Every time I look down at them they look perfect & are lasting. AND you get a million colors to choose from! It's the best $5 ever spent & I mean that! Despite the fact that the girl went on & on & on about how my nails don't look good short, I'm still gitty about this cheap pick-me-up. If you've been a little down lately...try this!

I've attached one of my favorite videos about getting your nails done just for fun! I'll figure out how to attach the video one day when I have more time so for now, it's a link. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsWrY77o77o

Monday, September 14, 2009

Vacation once more...

I just needed to post this great video that Jessica made about our vacation! I thought about putting it in the appropriate blog, but I didn't want it to not get noticed since she did an amazing job!

THANKS JESS!!!!!!!!!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mj0npcKZP7s

Thursday, September 10, 2009

blah, yuck, urrhhh

Have you ever gone through a period of time where you just don't feel like yourself? That's my issue at the current moment. I normally don't rant and rave about personal emotions on my blog, but I am this time so feel free to skip over this one.

I feel like there is a ball of rubber bands in my chest that are wound tightly together...I want them to subside...to disband and just relax, but they won't. I feel like i am going through each day just trying to make it through...just trying to keep the rubber bands from popping all over the place.

I've tried to pinpoint what the issues is...what in the world is making me feel this way, but I can't identify one particular thing. It really is a bunch of little things....um...prob. around 50 b/c I named about that many earlier in an email to my husband. :) Aren't you glad you aren't him?

There are two major problems here. One is that I can't fix all those little things that are diving me nuts...they are either too petty to even deal with or require more time than I have. Second is that I feel out of control...not crazy...but literally like I can't control my circumstances. I need control. I need a plan. I need organization in my life & I'm deprived of all those things right now. We are living with friends & thank God for friends, but I thought we would have our own place right now & well on our way to happily signing away our lives a mortgage payment, but we're just not finding anything we love.

I'm waiting....I'm waiting to see if we will continue to live with friends, find somewhere else to rent, find a house to buy...and I'm just not good at the waiting game. Seriously, I used to pop out of my hiding spot during "hid & seek" b/c the suspense of waiting on that person to find me! I'd honestly rather be "it."

What does the mean about me? None of us are really in control, but the illusion that we are is all we need to stay content, it's pretty pathetic truly, but I'm the queen of this illusion. I know the Lord could really teach me some stuff right now...I just wish I didn't have to be a basket case during the process. I wish I didn't get on my own nerves nevertheless those around me. I just need to feel like me again...just for a little while so I can remember this too will pass.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

TN10 Vacation 09!


This is something I look forward to every single year. There are a group of us girls that went to Lee together & happened to be in DZT together. Learning from those before us we knew that staying close & in touch after college would be hard work, but we vowed to give it our best shot. We started with "the newsletter" that would be sent out every month & recap what was going on in each other's lives. It was great, but over time it just didn't seem to fit our busy lifestyles. Email updates have replaced the newsletter & although they aren't as witty or fun, they still get the goal accomplished & serve the purpose of keeping us all in the loop.

"Family Vacation" as we like to call it was always part of the plan. We live all over.... MD, DC, VA, TN, SC (not MN anymore), but you get the picture. So, we wanted to know that at least once a year we would see each other. We would plan a specific time and place to get together & laugh, play, relax, catch up, eat & spend lots of time together. This year was our 3rd year strong & so far we've only had 1 or 2 missing each time. You have to admit, that is a pretty good percentage! As of now it's been over a long weekend just because none of us have a ton of vacation time available, but it may expand in the future.

Arhmin & Steve headed up this trip to St. Pete Beach, FL. We keep growing as people get married so we decided to split up! 9 girls in one house and 8 boys in the other! The houses were in a rock throwing distance from each other & the beach was less than a mile away. With the amount of umbrellas, chairs, coolers & toys we hauled to the beach daily, you would think we had about 10 kids with us! Next year we'll have 2 kiddos with us since the Thompson's and Baldwin's are expecting their first!

I didn't do the best job at taking pictures this year, but there were so many cameras there I'm not too worried about it. We ate at Havana Cafe (awesome Cuban food), The Wharf (awesome seafood) & grilled out for dinner. We made lunch at the house except for one day when we walked down the beach to a little cafe. We also got to see Sara & Julie who live in the FL area. That was such an awesome treat!!! Thanks girls for driving to see us, it was a highlight for sure!!!!

The boys had a great time. I guess they got use to not seeing us girls all that much on the two previous trips b/c we couldn't get them to hang out with us this time! They are always playing in the water, inventing games or fishing. I can't complain too much since I'm so glad they all get along and really enjoy hanging out!

Who knows where we'll be next year. Skiing, a cruise or the Outer Banks is what I've heard buzzing around. I don't care where it is or when it is...just as long as it happens! :) Thank you girls for being my sanity at times & always reminding me that investing in friendships is well worth the effort! Until next year...



We stopped here on the drive down. This chick-fil-a had a buffet & sit down restaurant. What!? No, it's not heaven, it's in GA!


the crew at Havana Cafe







headed to "wings" so Tim could get some swim shorts. Didn't you need sunglasses Shawn? ;)


I stand corrected. John is expecting his first born too!



roomies :)

Are you scared!?no comment needed here...


group photo!!!


our best "ninge & judie chop"


we can't wait for the babies to get here!






here is a video of the boys playing "water rugby" that they invented with a flat football. There are no rules...although "no pinching or jumping on the pile" develops later in round 2. :)

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Garden Transfer!

The seasons in MN are so different than here in TN. Right before we left our tomatoes were just starting to perk up and get some color. They were no where near ripe & ready to eat. We get to TN and the season is basically over!

We put hard work into our lovely garden as we do each year & it was such a shame to think about it going to waste since we were leaving. So...we decided to transplant everything to our neighbor & friend's yard! It was a success! Enjoy your instant garden Ashley & James!!!
digging up tomatoes, squash, cantaloupe, bell peppers etc.



kinda a little root for such a big plant don't ya think?


in their new home! perfecto!

James is pleased :)

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Lake Okoboji

Looking through my pictures on my camera today I realized that I never did a post on our recent (well kinda recent now) trip to Cutty's with Andi and Kendall!!!

It was a very relaxing and enjoyable time. We played games, ate, shopped, played mini golf, made a fire, swam, got in the hot tub, went on walks, bought a boat (not really, but we wanted to). It was a perfect.

Here are some highlights.

mini golf is free & that is one reason we play it so much while we're there!





hole in one!

the boys

looking at the awesome boats

checking out the sleeping area

ah....relaxed

the view at Barefoot Bar & Grill


our buzzer!
my snuggle gal, Snuffy!

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Happy Birthday, Caleb

This weekend we drove to SC to help celebrate John's cousin's birthday. Caleb is now officially 7 years old! These kiddos are growing up way too fast!

I didn't take any pictures at the party(dumb), but got a few before we headed out the next day. I painted Brooke's nails & toes and John entertained the kids in the pool. Happy Birthday, Caleb...I hope it was a memorable one!

Caleb & Brandon chicken fight


Brooke can now swim without "swimmies"--the arm bands. However, she rarely leaves the steps. :)

here is an instance where she left the steps...not at her own will. :)

we had lots of food all weekend!


action shots of caleb jumping off john's shoulders...off the diving board



he loved it!

Blake playing with John's old tractor


Caleb LOVES our dogs


Caleb thought Raleigh could use some clothes.